sometimes i hear songs i liked in middle school and i’m like…. how did i possibly relate to this as a 12 year old. who was hurting me so bad that secondhand serenade made sense to me
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smedshalex asked: How does an ENFJ deal with relationship rejection?
Fe: I want to keep harmony between the two of us, even though this is painful for me, so I won’t make a big deal out of it. This is all probably my fault, anyways.
Ni: Technically it’s no one’s fault. But, here! Look at this fun pattern of all the things you’ve done in the past that lead to your rejection. Here’s what’s going to happen in the future–you’re going to wind up alone. Or! Alternately! You could meet someone else better and have a wonderful relationship!
Se: God, I feel so terrible right now. I just want to go eat ice cream and watch the sunset and go on a walk and punch something and cry! This is the worst and I’m in so much pain.
Ti: Okay, but remember: technically, you’re awesome. How dare that person not love you? And probabilities are high that you’ll find someone again that you’re in love with. I am right about this.
(disclaimer: unless otherwise specified, when I say what any type might do, it’s of a healthy, well-adjusted type to the best of my knowledge.)
You might think she wants your car, your money, and gifts… but the right woman wants your time, your smile, your honesty, your effort, and your willingness to make her a priority.Charles J. Orlando (via psych-facts)
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I must learn to love the fool in me - the one who feels too much, talks too much, takes too many chances, wins sometimes and loses often, lacks self-control, loves and hates, hurts and gets hurt, promises and breaks promises, laughs and cries.Theodore Isaac Rubin (via lazypacific)
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